THE ODD ONES

Being left out or isolated in a gathering or organization tends to be so rampant nowadays. They keep saying, “She’s too trashy, She’s a shenanigan and so on.

But the question here is ‘’Do you have to pretend in order to feel among or just be yourself and stay isolated?”

There’s this lady, she’s 24 and works in a travelling agency. She’s beautiful, smart and yes fun to be with; oh well, depending on the kind of fun though.

She met several gorgeous ladies there to as well but feeling among was extremely difficult. As they all club every single Friday, gossip amongst themselves, to be precise, they all do partially everything together, leaving her out of it, which made her realize she’s THE ODD ONE.  

On this fateful day, she decided to try her luck by trying to feel among but oops! It backfired and was being seen as the ”Pushy One”. a move she regretted for the rest of her stay in the organization.

They are several issues that also affect THE ODD ONES in an organization when given a collective task. No matter how smart or a genius they seem to be, once they find it hard to team up with others, the task comes out negative.
Another issue is the time for promotion and evaluation, THE ODD ONES mostly are being left out as usual cause even their superiors hardly know their ‘Dos and Donts”, and oh well, that’s definitely a disadvantage to them.
Especially the ones working in an organization with social life - if they can’t nail their social aspect accurately, their presence in the company is at stake.
Every individual as to flow with the vibe sometimes in order not just to fit in but to also be on the team side to achieve whatever their goals are.
The more you keep slaking with your errors, the more it keeps hunting you down.
Pride of being who you are and not pretending to be someone else can at times be detrimental towards your goals.
In some part of the world, THE ODD ONES tend to be the “superhero” because their skill is extremely needed to achieve a mission.
This article might seem confusing but in a nutshell, being THE ODD ONE shouldn’t be a disease you must pretend to cure or push yourself too hard to want to cure.
If being THE ODD ONE makes you excited and well-focused, then “to hell” with what others feel about you.

Is imitating the false part of you a good idea?

Yes, it all depends on your purpose and aims. If imitating lesser part of the ‘false you’ wouldn't affect you from achieving the necessary, then just be ‘THE ODD ONE” but if it will, why wait? Go ahead, be inspired by that false part and maybe, just maybe, you can’t say -- the so-called “false you” can actually turn out to be the “True you” you’ve been terming otherwise.