FRIENDS

Friends are individuals we choose to spend time with, not because it’s a necessity but because we love them enough to hang out with them.

Friends are meant to give us a positive company when lonely, accept our flaws and probably correct us along the way and most importantly, support us unconditionally!

A few years back, I had lots of friends, well to me I call them friends but on the actual view, they were not! They are just figureheads who hang around me and act to be all friendly and stuff.

After months of thinking, I realized friends should be like family; family we choose but never expects too much from them!

Enough of my story, let us move on!

Having good and amazing friends who love and support you is really important to your happiness.

And what’s funny about humans are, we want good things but find it hard to return such favor.

We want good friends but don’t know how to be an amazing friend back.

Willing to know my opinion about how to be a good friend?

Firstly, Learn how to listen to them. Ask questions to get a sense of the issue, but most importantly, listen to them quite well.

Secondly, Get facts! Being interested in what they are going through shows you care and that you plan to stick around no matter the lame issues.

Thirdly, Get physical! Regular hug is a great way to show you care for them and that can be comforting enough for them, especially when they feel lonely.

Lastly, Learn to keep in touch! To be honest, less communication makes me feel unwanted. So even if you don’t reside nearby, regular touch via social media, text, and so on is quite important.

The more you accept a friend, the easier that friend tends to trust you.

Eventually, trust is the basis for any strong relationship/friendship. To make trust actually come to play, proper communication is vital.

So to my so called friends, if you are still willing to stick around and nurture the friendship we’ve got, follow these guidelines and I bet you, We Good For Life!